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AN INFJ'S JOURNEY TO SELF DISCOVERY

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In one sentence - It was hard. Growing up, I discovered quite quickly that I was different. The two words that I remember being used to describe me while growing up were - "Quiet and Slow." There were many instances in which the words were used but, the most notable experience was my Ten years old birthday anniversary.  I was born into a Christian family, so most celebrations were carried out within the religious gathering - my ten years old birthday celebration was not spared either. It was a surprise celebration - I had no idea that it was being planned until the birthday morning, when a huge cake landed on our door step. We (My family and I) took the cake and some snacks to the church family for the celebration, as was the norm.  Some people close to me were given the chance to talk about me during the ceremony, I remember vividly because the event was recorded into a tape which I watched severally growing up. My brother and dad had a lot of good stuffs to say

Self Discovery and Your Basic Temperament

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In a previous article , we introduced temperaments as the fundamental reasons we act differently or alike as the case may be. The four major temperaments known are: Choleric (extroverted) Sanguine (extroverted) Melancholic (introverted)   Phlegmatic /Supine (introverted) Each of these temperaments have traits that are unique to them. When the temperaments blend together in a person, we see the person exhibit traits from their temperamental blend. The traits they show more determine their Primary temperament while the Secondary temperament, as the name implies, balances it out. The four temperaments combine to form blends which are 12 in number. You might also show tetiary and quaternary traits from other temperaments but these are negligible.  The 12 blends of temperaments (from the most extroverted to the most introverted) are:  Sanguine-Choleric (San-Chlor) - Complete Extrovert Choleric-Sanguine (Chlor-San) - Complete Extrovert  Sanguine-Phlegmatic (San-Phleg) -

INSPIRED PUSH - A STORY WITH LIFE LESSONS

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STORY: A man had one very beautiful daughter. When the daughter was ready for marriage, the father sent news around town that all the eligible young men should come to compete in a test which would determine who was fit to marry his daughter. On that day, all was set, all the able-bodied young men came out. Some came with papers and pens and others came with cutlasses and swords. The rich man took them to his swimming pool and addressed the men: “Any of you who can swim from one end of this swimming pool to the other would marry my daughter. In addition, I'll give him 15 million dollars, a car and a house so that they can start life well. I shall be waiting to meet my son-in-law at the other end. Good luck!" As the young men, all very excited at the prospect of winning, started taking off their shirts, a helicopter flew over the pool and dropped Crocodiles into the pool. Immediately, all the men turned back and started wearing their shirts. Disappointed, some of them

TAKING A POLL ON LUVLYBEE'S BLOG

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STEPS TO UNDERSTANDING THE WORLD OF INTROVERSION

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Hello, my lovely blog readers, I'm so excited to be back. So sorry for the long break. Hope you've all been faring well. Here's another interesting piece from me. I hope you'll enjoy and learn from it. Intro  Temi is a well brought up young lady from a family of five. She has two younger siblings. She is somewhat an introvert but she does not know it. She prides herself as being social and is unaware that people think negatively of her because they misunderstand her every action. Scenario  Temi, after series of lectures, desires to be left alone so that she can find some peace and quiet to think. She finally gets the space she so desired and uses the opportunity to reflect on her day, on how productive her day had been and her plans for the remaining of the day. She is deep in thought when one of her course mates passes by. On seeing her, he waves, calls her name and says "Hello!" but, because Temi is deep in thought, she does not hear him a

WHAT MAKES YOU BEHAVE LIKE YOU?

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Recently or should I say for sometime now, there's been a lot of questions on my mind about why I act the way I do, why I react a particular way to a situation, different from how another person would react in such situation, what makes individuals act alike or differently as the case may be, etc. Okay, these questions kept coming so, I used one of the special and most useful products of technological advancement, the google search engine to solve the mystery. Of course, I discovered that these questions were popular to the majority all around the world, which gave rise to research on why we act the way we do by psychologists and other individuals. From my finding, this research gave rise to the discovery of what we now refer to as TEMPERAMENTS. My simple definition of temperament goes thus: Temperament refers to the fundamentals of why we act the way we do when presented with different situations or circumstances and also in our daily lives. These fundamentals are genetic

WONDERS OF LIFE

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Hello friends, thank you for staying with me so far. Today is indeed a beautiful day. The article I would be sharing today was the very first article I did online, on my former blog in 2015 and I want to  share it with us today. I hope you'll enjoy it and please don't forget to share. How many times have we just sat back to wonder about life and the mysteries it contains? Life itself is a wonder. Nature is a wonder. Have you ever sat back to ponder on the things around you? I sometimes do. Questions like these come to my mind: HOW? How do I breath? Now that is a mystery even though scientists (of which I am one) have a complex explanation on the process of breathing. How do I control my body to carry out different activities like eating (very important), walking, typing (like I'm doing now), laughing, crying etc.? Now I know scientists like myself say these processes are controlled by the brain but to me it's still a mystery. How do I read and understand t